Updated: Dec 8, 2020
Family is an important part of most of our lives. They’re who we laugh with, cry with, and, occasionally, fight. But they’re our family and we love them. Right now, you want to focus your time on your family and spend less time with your friends.
Here are some tips and tools to help you do just that!
First, it’s time to tell people what you’re doing! Communicate your shift to everyone you trust that will be affected, your family, friends, team, boss, etc. Work with them to put an actionable plan together that can help you achieve your goals. Not only will this let people know what you are trying to accomplish, but they can help hold you accountable when you waver.
When working towards your new goal, make sure you know and set boundaries to avoid being pulled back into old habits. Perhaps, before you decided to make a shift, you would grab dinner or hang out with your friends every weekend. Now, you have new priorities and your time will shift accordingly. Perhaps from now on you will only hang out with them once a month and spend that time with your family. Whatever your line is, don’t cross it or allow it to be crossed. Set the boundaries that make sense for you and stick to them!
Unfortunately, not all friends are created equal. In fact, some of the people we call our friends may be doing us more harm than good. Toxic friendships can affect your mental health and build unhealthy dependencies. Friends are the support network that you cultivate around yourself. So, as you make your shift and spend less time with your friends, make sure that you focus your time on the friends who support you without expecting anything in return. Any friend that resents or rebuffs you for your choice, is not worth your time.
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